Is It racist to ask that people who come to this country,from other countries, conform to this countries way's

It seems like this country is more and more putting the kabosh on this countries traditions & way of life, While at the same time making exceptions for the ways of others, Who are not native to this country. Anyone who gets tired of it is branded a racist.. Why is it racist only if your white? but members of visible minorities are allowed to spout off any racial slur they feel.I'm nt a racest in the least,, but im tired of giving up my rights while others are being accomidated in the very rights that are being removed from me.. I was born here I think if people want to come here,, They should have to learn our rules and traditions. leave their old ones home in the country they left