He asks me out i say no. then i ask him out he says no? i know its long but please help me?

think he is talking to more then one girl and likes you alot but doesn't want to hurt you so he keeping you as back pocket girl checks in with every now & then to see if your still single. but is having fun with other women in the mean time so that why he isn't talking to you as much cuz the other girls might get jealous mad so he playing it cool like i been busy but will is like hi where friends remember . he might be distancing himself because doesn't to get caught up in things or maybe cares about you but right now he just want to be free man but doesn't want to hurt you.