So many seem to be so hung up on who does whom. Does anyone else find that a tad bit sick??

As a gay man I don't freak out when I find out someone I communicate with online but have never met in person is straight. As far as I'm concerned, big freaking deal. All the more power to them. What the heck is up with what appears to be some sort of rabid phobia epidemic? Why would people go out of their way to belittle and berate any group of people by entering an area designated for them? For example, I don't go to christian areas to torment christians. I have in the past gone to Jewish areas and what I have found rabid supposed christians over there tormenting jews. Not to place the blame soley upon christians, thats not the point. Not at all. I've met a lot of great christians who are very nice. Could it be that the crumuegedons are simply posers who use false personalites for entertainment purposes? Why would someone be so deliberately nasty? Lonlieness? Constipation? What's your take on this?