How can i make my boyfriend feel better about himself?

You are lucky. You have a man who feels the responsibility of fatherhood. He sounds like a very old-fashioned man who believes that he should be the bread winner, not his pregnant partner! I'm not trying to make you feel guilty about working but I think that he won't get his self-esteem back until he finds a job. His ego is battered because he feels like he can't provide for his family. This is quite a hard situation because the only thing you can do is just encourage him with his job hunting and make him feel like a man and a good boyfriend. Make him feel that, just becase he doesn't have a job YET, he is still all man in your eyes. Just let him know that you always feel like he is there when you really need him and that your life would be incomplete without him.